When you graduate from high school, there’s a lot of emphasis on independence. The focus was always held on life skills like being able to drive, navigating post-secondary systems, and how to live alone. When I first went to college, I was told that I wouldn’t even make it the first semester - because I … Continue reading Interdependence
Respecting Communication
One of the most significant things I’ve noticed since adopting Leia is how she communicates. After growing up with mostly dogs and fish, I learned that cats often have very different preferences and body language compared to the dogs I grew up with. The difference can be confusing, but being autistic means I understand my … Continue reading Respecting Communication
Autism and Epilepsy
Here’s your friendly reminder that autism and seizures sometimes go hand in hand. Not always, but sometimes it does. Person with blonde hair and glasses is wearing a light green/blue shirt and a black cardigan. They have several electrodes glued to their head for an EEG to test for seizures. Had an ambulatory EEG this … Continue reading Autism and Epilepsy
Airplanes and Regulation
Lately, I’ve been feeling a bit more dysregulated than usual.When it comes to autism and self-regulation, stimming and meeting sensory needs are incredibly important for us. However, there is one thing that often gets left out of the discussion - special interests and passions. Over the past few weeks, I have immersed myself into the … Continue reading Airplanes and Regulation
Flower Communion
Earlier this month, my caregiver and I went to a local friend’s Unitarian Universalist church - where we were able to participate in their yearly tradition of the flower communion.During the ceremony, everyone brings a flower and places it in a basket or vase. After a small reflection, everyone returns to receive a flower different … Continue reading Flower Communion